Mother Whisperers Vision

By Val Boyko • October 10th, 2011

Bonding - Mother and Daughter having a laugh togetherThe vision of Mother Whisperers is to inspire adult daughters to create the relationship they want with their mothers and find peace of mind.

Its a journey that many women are on…. but how do you know when you have become a Mother Whisperer?


You are a Mother Whisperer when:

    1. You become aware of who you are as an adult woman. You claim your internal power to express yourself and love yourself.
    2. You accept that every mother is a human being and woman first. Connect to the the human being in your mother, rather than the role of mother that she played in your life.
    3. You take responsibility for your part in the relationship as an adult woman.
    4. You think and behave with self confidence, empathy, compassion and kindness.
    5. You know that life isn’t always about happy endings, and “good enough” is truly good enough!
    6. You have this conversation with your own mother or with your daughter and other young women who need to hear this message, so they can claim their power and express their authentic selves.
    7. You take good care of you from now on. You learn to become the mother to yourself that your heart and soul has always yearned for.

Take a moment to think about which step you are ready to open your heart to and take action on. There are many posts and pages with helpful tips and advice. Try doing a quick search for what you need in the upper right hand box.

Val’s Comment: No matter where you are on your journey we are here to help with each step on the way. I hope you find what you are looking for on the site. There are lots of resources that can help. If you’d like to connect directly then please send me an email at



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